Relationship report
Relationship Quiz for Couples
Discover insights about your relationship with our Couple Report. This comprehensive analysis provides couples with valuable information about their dynamics, strengths, and areas for improvement. Get your relationship report today to deepen your understanding of each other and enhance your bond. Perfect for couples seeking to strengthen their connection.
Couple Character Test
Relationship Mapping
Get to discover a map that charts the contours of your unique love expression.
Science-Based
Based on Chapman's 5 love languages, Sternberg’s triangular theory of love, and Gottman’s work on love and conflict.
Additional Insights
Extended feedback on two combined test scales plus practical advice tailored to you character and love styles.
How does this couple report help you in your relationship?
This couple report is a valuable tool for understanding and improving my relationship. It provides insights into my romantic style and communication preferences, which can help me communicate more effectively with my partner. By understanding what makes me feel loved and how I express love, I can better meet my partner's emotional needs and express my own. The report's focus on intimacy, passion, and commitment can guide me in strengthening these aspects of my relationship. It also offers practical advice on expressing feelings and needs, which can often be challenging. Ultimately, this report can help me build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Inside this Relationship Quiz for Couples Report
5 Love Language quiz pdf
The "5 Love Languages" test is like discovering a fresh dialect in the language of love. It uncovers your natural tendencies in both showing and feeling affection, highlighting how you best connect and feel cherished. Be it through sincere words of affirmation, shared moments of quality time, the exchange of gifts, mutual acts of service, or physical intimacy, it evaluates what works best for you. As part of the report you’ll get the love language test pdf.
3 Love Characters test pdf
The "Love Characters" test illustrates your romantic character traits - the natural ‘you’. Grounded in Sternberg's triangular theory of love, it measures your inclinations in three areas: intimacy, passion, and commitment. The harmony you seek among these dimensions reveals the type of relationship that most resonates with you. You’ll get the love character test pdf.
Combined dual test feedback on your unique love dynamics
Our goal is to foster understanding, growth, and empowerment. Each test offers a distinct perspective on your romantic encounters, and collectively, they give thorough insights into your individual relationship dynamics. We combine data from both tests into unique insights that can help you act and be more self-aware.
Relationship Report with Practical Recommendations
Through this report you'll get a solid grasp of your relationship dynamics, enabling you to communicate your needs and desires more effectively with your partner. You’ll become more self-aware by seeing how you like to experience romance, how you naturally show and receive affection, as well as how you balance closeness, excitement, and commitment in a relationship, to get a clearer picture of how you relate to others. This understanding will give you the confidence to talk about your needs and desires more openly and honestly.
The nature and chemistry of romantic love through this couples report
This report delves into the complex and multifaceted phenomenon of romantic love, a universal experience that transcends cultures, ethnicities, and time. It moves beyond mere analysis, providing a deeper understanding of unique love styles and relationship dynamics. The report offers individual and combined test feedbacks, along with practical advice, designed by psychologists, on managing oneself and one's partner in a relationship. Romantic love is likened to a potent drug, with side effects ranging from poor concentration to obsessive thinking and even pathological behaviors. Psychologist Frank Tallis suggests that being in love is the closest many people come to experiencing mental illness. However, passionate love also has numerous positive effects. It can inspire us to become better versions of ourselves, turn ordinary individuals into heroes, drive self-sacrifice, and fuel creative achievements. This report aims to help individuals navigate the intricacies of romantic love.
Explore this couple report with your partner
The Relationship Report is a useful tool for understanding the nature and chemistry of romantic love in a couple. It provides insights into how each partner prefers to express and receive love, whether through verbal affirmations, spending quality time together, or through other meaningful gestures. This can help each person feel more appreciated and valued in the relationship. Furthermore, the report also explores individual preferences for intimacy, thrill, and commitment, shedding light on the dynamics that keep the relationship exciting and fulfilling. By discussing these findings together, couples can gain a deeper understanding of each other's needs and desires. This, in turn, can lead to a stronger, happier bond as the couple learns to support and care for each other in more effective ways. Thus, the Relationship Report is a vital resource for couples seeking to enhance their romantic connection.
What does companionate love feel like?
Dating and mating are the conveyor belt of human life, no wonder we care about it - love - so much. The typical symptoms of love types include, per anthropologist H. Fisher and psychologist D. Tennov:
Intrusive Thinking
Being unable to stop thinking about the other person
Aggrandization of the Beloved
Ideolizing the other person we’re in love with
Looking for Clues
Being hyperattentive to the other person’s feelings toward you
Intense Energy
The energy we get when in love can lead us to sleep less, forget to eat, and be active like never before
Mood Swings
Love takes you on a roller coaster of emotions
Sexual desires
A centerpiece of love is sexual activity, that is mutual, and which usually goes in line with a desire for sexual exclusivity
Involuntariness
Simply put, love is beyond our control, which is why we say we “fall in love”: falling isn’t voluntary usually
Fleeting
Most often love is fleeting, it’s natural
23 page printable pdf of relationship test feedback to help you
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Frequently asked questions
Can couples therapy save a relationship?
Absolutely, couples therapy can indeed be a game-changer in saving and rejuvenating struggling relationships. It serves as a crucial platform for couples to openly communicate, resolve conflicts, and rebuild intimacy under the guidance of a professional therapist. It's an effective tool in relationship repair that helps partners to understand and appreciate each other's perspectives, enhancing mutual respect and empathy.
Couples therapy can help address various issues such as communication problems, trust issues, infidelity, and disagreements over finances, parenting, or other significant topics. It provides strategies and techniques for conflict resolution, promoting healthier and more effective communication patterns.
In addition, it can also assist couples in reigniting their emotional connection and sparking the flame of intimacy. With the help of couples therapy, partners can learn to express their feelings and needs more effectively, leading to a deeper understanding and stronger bond.
While couples therapy isn't a quick fix, it can be a lifesaver for relationships on the brink of breakdown. It's essential to remember that the success of couples therapy largely depends on the willingness of both parties to be open, honest, and committed to the process.
What makes a relationship compatible?
Compatibility in a relationship is characterized by shared values, mutual respect, effective communication, and emotional connectivity. These foundational elements foster a healthy, sustainable bond.
Shared values are essential for relationship compatibility as they influence decisions, behaviors, and conflict resolution methods. Understanding and accepting each other’s perspectives, also known as mutual respect, creates a safe space for open dialogue and trust-building.
Effective communication is another critical factor in relationship compatibility. This involves expressing feelings, thoughts, and concerns openly, honestly, and respectfully. Emotional connectivity, the ability to empathize, understand, and connect with each other’s emotions, significantly contributes to a relationship's compatibility.
In addition, compatibility can be enhanced by shared interests and experiences, which foster a deeper bond and mutual understanding. Being compatible doesn't necessarily mean being identical; it's more about harmony and balance in the relationship.
How reliable is this couple report?
Tests that comprise this relationship assessment report include the five love languages test and the love character (aka love style) test. They measure multiple traits and scales, and have been created based on sound empirical and theoretical frameworks, have been taken by thousands of respondents on gyfted.me and validated using psychometric methods so the scales measure what they are supposed to measure consistently.
The empirical foundations behind this report include the following works:
Origins of love languages: Chapman, G. (1992). The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Chicago, IL: Northfield Publishing.
Love languages and satisfaction: Egbert, N., & Polk, D. M. (2006). Speaking the language of relational maintenance: A validity test of Chapman's five love languages. Communication Research
Love language compatibility: Gungor, B., & Dodd, D. K. (2008). The five love languages: Exploratory factor analyses of Chapman's measures of love languages. Individual Differences Research, 6(4), 251-259.
Origins of love theory: Sternberg, R. J. (1986). A triangular theory of love. Psychological Review, 93(2), 119-135.
Emotional regulation in interpersonal settings: Gross, J. J., & John, O. P. (2003). Individual differences in two emotion regulation processes: Implications for affect, relationships, and well-being. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 85(2), 348-362.
Love and conflict resolution: Gottman, J. M., & Levenson, R. W. (2000). The timing of divorce: Predicting when a couple will divorce over a 14‐year period. Journal of Marriage and Family, 62(3), 737-745.